As I take a look at relationships around me, I often get perturbed by the way some people treat those they supposedly love. I don’t understand why some stay with those who treat them badly.

Don’t let boys be mean to you. Don’t let girls be mean to you. We accept the love with think we deserve. If someone’s significant other treats them badly, they should break up with them. Life is too short and we’re all to young to put up with another person who makes us feel miserable or not good enough. The truth is, if someone treats another person badly, or acts like they don’t care, chances are, they really don’t. For the most part it’s girls who get this idea in their head that they can “change” someone, or that as the relationship goes on things will be different. That’s not a good way to look at it in most cases because no one should have to put up with someone who makes them unhappy for any period of time. Sure, every couple fights, it’s normal, but they should never feel disrespected, or alone. A relationship should be open, honest and always start with the best intentions. If someone truly cares about you, they will never want you to be unhappy.