When on a date or with someone you’ve just started dating it’s okay to keep your space.  If you’ve known that person a while it’s okay to ask personal questions but otherwise stay in your own comfort zone. If you don’t feel like the person your with should know about something casually change conversation or flat out tell them you don’t feel comfortable sharing it. Talk about interests and little things, if you go big, they might be overwhelmed and get scared off. That nervous feeling around someone new might throw you off a little, but its normal and that person is probably feeling it too. When acting like there is nothing to worry about or wrong it makes both of you feel better about the date. Ending the date is always what will be remembered most. You want the person you’re with to feel special and that the whole date wasn’t a waste of time. Staying in your comfort zone leaves you with a sense of security and calmness. Both people on the date should understand each other’s comfort zones.